What Vanderpump Rules Can Teach You About Wedding Etiquette
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Weddings are a time of love, celebration, and unity...and apparently drama. From Scheana's "It's all about me" attitude to Scandoval’s seven-month affair with one of Ariana's best friends, it's clear that some people need a crash course in wedding etiquette. Lucky for you, we've got the tips to ensure you don't end up on the next season of reality TV.
First things first, it's all about the bride, right? Well, sort of. Scheana's "you should care as much as me" mentality in calling out Lala for not attending all scheduled events may not have been the best approach. As a bride, it's important to remember that not everyone will be as invested in your wedding or care as much as you do (except for your planner!). So don't take it personally if some guests can't make it to every single planned activity or pre-celebration. After all, they might have other personal matters to attend to. And as a guest, if you're feeling emotionally spent or just not interested in a particular outing, it's okay to take a pass.
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In line with the last bit of advice, if you commit to attending a specific activity especially if it requires reservations, like a spa day or a fancy dinner, make sure you show up. It's disrespectful to the bride and groom to flake out last minute, notably if they've put effort into planning and organizing the event. Don't let a wild night out ruin your friend's carefully planned weekend. And while we're on the topic of respect, if you've been uninvited to a wedding due to a falling out with the couple, take the hint and stay home. Trust us; it's not worth the potential drama or #FOMO. If you find yourself in a situation like Katie Maloney, it's best to respect the couple's wishes. Attending a wedding where you're not wanted is not only awkward for you, but it can also create tension among mutual friends. Not to mention attending the same space where the wedding is being held may force your mutual friends to split time with you and the friend's wedding taking away from the reason for the celebration.
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And speaking of drama, let's talk about some things you should NEVER do at a wedding, starting with kissing or hooking up with your ex's friend or anyone that you and your ex share as a mutual friend. We're looking at you, Shwartz. It's just not cool, and it takes away from the couple's special day. And for the love of all that is holy, don't carry on a seven-month affair with your best friend's partner. It's a surefire way to end up on the wrong side of history (and your conscience). Here we have the cautionary tale of Tom Sandoval and Raquel Leviss, formerly known as Rachel. Don't be like them. Don't flirt in front of your partner at a friend's wedding (or not at a friend's wedding), use your best friend as a decoy at said friend's wedding or carry on a months-long affair behind their back. These behaviors are not only deceitful, hurtful and disrespectful to your significant other, but they can also lead to long-term consequences that can affect your personal and professional life. So avoid narcissistic and insecure people who need validation from the outside, and focus on building strong, healthy relationships with the people who matter most to you. Thanks Rachel: you've been an amazing example of what not to do in both situations...*slow clap*...
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So, there you have it, folks. Some simple tips to keep in mind when attending a wedding. Remember, it's all about celebrating love, not creating drama. And if all else fails, just add trip insurance to cover your ass-ets and make sure you're not on the hook for any damages...or divorces.